Being a planner or a organiser is not a easy task.
Do you know how hard it is to consolidate the schedule of different people?
Do you know how many messages and calls were made for a event to happen?
Do you know how frustrating it is to not get a response when you need one?
Do you know how irritating it is to get response such as anything/ maybe or i don't know?
Do you know how angry it is when the whole group were late when you are the first to reach and yet were late in the first place?
Do you know how feel sad it is when you did so much, and you didn't even get a thank you yet was blame for being unreasonable?
Do you know cheated it is when your friend told you at the last min that he/she couldn't make it and cancel the appointment?
Kindly take initative and accountability for events that you wish to plan/carry out.
Being a middleman once a while is alright given the fact that I am free and what i get in return was not your unappreciateness.
I had known this fact long ago.
But was often told that since im used to being the organiser,
i might as well just continue to be one.
Learning that time management is important, i cant possibly handle all events.
Therefore sometimes it is good to be selfish and say NO.
After doing so much, there isn't a said thank you.
No one really appreciate what i do.
So from now on, i will only ASSIST others in organising event
unless i wanted the event to take place badly.
